Posted by pinkeye on April 5, 2005, at 19:44:57
In reply to Re: thank you all » shrinking violet, posted by pinkeye on April 5, 2005, at 19:39:28
Just imagine how much of conflicting message that is sending you - One day she is doing the sweetest thing in the world and is making a toy for your cat and letting you know she cares so deeply about you - and within a couple of months, she is telling you she can't even see you for more than one session and she wants to terminate immediately.
It is putting you through extreme difficulty. Any body will have a real hard time coping up with conflicts like that. She should have had little more wisdom and strength.. According to me, what she has done clearly shows her extreme incompetency. I would never ever trust a therapist like that. She means well for you, but clearly has absolutely no idea whatsoever how to go about doing it. Intentions are not good enough. Don't take it on you. I am usually pro - therapist kind of person and I insist on the client taking the responsibility for maintaining a good therapeuic relationship, but in your case, it is so very clear that it is her mistake.
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