Posted by Tamar on March 10, 2005, at 14:23:24
In reply to Re: (Redirect) New, and a bit sad » alexandra_k, posted by B2chica on March 9, 2005, at 12:52:18
> first i need to say Congrats on the breakthrough. that's wonderful news. and i got a breakout of anxiety when i read your post. i've been struggling to find a 'decent' T for months...Finally found a Perfect one in nov but he had to leave out of town for a couple months, he's just now back but may only be around for a few months...he was very ethical about it and wanted to make it very clear that he may not be around any longer than that...i didn't care. he's such a great fit for me!
> but i got the anxiety reading your post cuz man, i need to pump out a lot of crud in the next few months and am not looking forward to him leaving. but i'd rather have a little time with a Great one, then a Long time with one not so suited for me. maybe you can look at it that way.
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> smile.
> B2c.
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>Sorry to hear about your anxiety. I can imagine what that must be like. I agree with you, though: a good fit for a short time is probably a very good thing, and will help you pump out all that crud, whereas a bad fit probably won't get you so far even if he's around for years.
I hope things work out well for you.
Tamar
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