Posted by Aphrodite on March 9, 2005, at 15:49:10
In reply to Re: Going to the scene of the crime . . . » Aphrodite, posted by partlycloudy on March 9, 2005, at 14:50:32
> I think that allowing him to physically take that walk with you - when you are ready - would make a very big difference in how he can help you. Sitting in an office and relating memories in words can't completely convey the pain and anxiety the memories cause.
> And I don't think that it's too far a measure for a T to take, but travelling to this place with you. Therapists each have their own way of working and getting to understand their clients. I had one therapist who had me bring in all sorts of photographs I had from my childhood, and she was immediately able to grasp the remoteness my mother displayed, just from the pictures. I was amazed, and completely validated by the experience.
> with great concern and good wishes,
> partlycloudy
>
Photographs are a great idea, I think. Then the T can visualize the people you speak about. He had me bring in photos early on too and like you said, could glean a lot from them.As for his style as you mentioned, he really prides himself on being "flexible" and "out-of-the-box" so I'm not totally surprised. I guess I'm surprised he cares that much to be that way for me. It still blows me away sometimes.
Thanks for your warm wishes.
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