Posted by daisym on March 2, 2005, at 1:16:42
In reply to Re: More Freud stuff ...and new insight ***trigger » Aphrodite, posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2005, at 22:58:44
I find it intensely interesting that shopping got mixed up in this thread. I don't link the two...shopping is an escape for me. I could spend hours trying on clothes. :)
I don't have much to add as far as sex goes. I'm sure you've done the basics, change positions, etc. etc. I guess I've never thought of it as an intrusion before, but more about being "used" which is really old. Especially right now, since we are on different planets about this and he finds it soothing and settling and it sends me off the deep end.
I'm curious as to how you talk about sex with your therapist. Mine will say, "make love" or "get into it" or just plain "having sex" but almost never "intercourse". Sometimes we use proper terms, especially about body parts, but occasionally we get loose and use slang. (He swears about as much as I do, though I find it amusing sometimes.)Do you find you are using different words as a client than you do as a therapist?
Full of questions tonight -- feel free to ignore me.
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