Posted by Dinah on February 24, 2005, at 20:14:24
In reply to Re: That really wasn't fair of me » Dinah, posted by Aphrodite on February 24, 2005, at 19:59:01
It was nice of him. He's like that occasionally - not often by any means.
I would have been fine with him not calling. I mostly wanted to give him a chance to think about it before tomorrow's session, and evaluate if it was starting to be a problem for him.
He's been way nicer in general lately. I wonder if a death in the very immediate family is the key to something for him. Like I deserve kindness now or something. I don't remember him being like this when my best (human) friend died. And not when my dog died either.
But maybe that's not fair either. Maybe something about the way I handled my father's illness or death stirred something in him and deepened our relationship. Or maybe not.
Only time will tell I guess.
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