Posted by Dinah on February 24, 2005, at 19:13:37
In reply to Re: For vs. About » mair, posted by Speaker on February 24, 2005, at 17:47:33
To tell you the truth, although I'm glad now that I stuck it out with my therapist, I'm not altogether sure it was the best decision.
I *like* that he's not overly empathetic, but...
At any rate, he'd have probably responded the way your therapist did a long time ago. But he's grown a lot since then, and would now undoubtedly be more attuned. If he hadn't changed I know it wouldn't have been right to stay with him. And as it was, we spent years on the relationship rather than my issues.
Transference or no, you should be able to trust your gut on leaving or staying.
Work is better than last week, nowhere near what it should be.
I don't know what to do.
poster:Dinah
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