Posted by Dinah on February 18, 2005, at 19:59:18
In reply to Re: relationship Blossom, posted by Blossom on February 18, 2005, at 16:08:53
Maybe you can pursue some time consuming and or money consuming interests. Most people decide to quit going to therapy because they find that they eventually feel that their time and money could be put to better use. Maybe you could give that a little shove.
Clearly he's got bad boundaries, and that's practically guaranteed to arouse some complex feelings in you. That's the reasons the boundaries are strongly supported by the licensing bodies. My therapist has very good boundaries, but on those rare occasions when he does make me feel uncomfortable, I'm almost guaranteed not to tell him because I'd rather have the illusion of intimacy than good therapy. I think that's pretty natural. :) I'm lucky in that it doesn't happen often.
I think enticing yourself away from therapy that you seem to say you no longer really need is reasonable.
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