Posted by bent on February 7, 2005, at 8:43:42
In reply to Re: relationship Blossom, posted by Blossom on February 6, 2005, at 18:22:37
I hope you are able to say something to your T. When do you see him again? I hope you let us know how it goes. I think I agree with what others, and you, have said. This is a 'slippery slope' and one subtle move in the wrong way could destroy the therapy. Hopefully you can tell your T how you feel and that you fear what might happen. He sounds like a good guy and making you feel safe should be very important to him. I know the push-pull feeling of termination. I try so hard to pull away from my T yet at the same time I am so afriad of being without her. Its like when I pull away I want her to bring me back so that I dont have to leave. The fact that she doesnt do this is hard but tells me she doing what's right for me. It always seems to hurt me when I think that I will always 'feel' that I need her way more than she will ever need me. That is therapy I guess. Sucks, huh? :) Good luck talking to your T and let us know what happens.
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