Posted by vwoolf on February 17, 2005, at 12:56:29
In reply to Re: Good to see you » vwoolf, posted by sunny10 on February 16, 2005, at 13:39:29
Thanks to all of you who replied. It all felt so appropriate that it became difficult to reply. I think Sunny's comment says a lot about me though. I can't seem to use positive ways of self soothing, even Babble is difficult for me, and I think a lot of what you all wrote about "sense of self" or "self esteem" says precisely that. That if you have no sense of self, you have no way of looking after yourself caringly. So I keep repeating abusive patterns.
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