Posted by shrinking violet on January 26, 2005, at 17:05:28
In reply to Re: One thing you can do ..., posted by Daisym on January 21, 2005, at 20:51:44
Daisy, thank you for your response. Well, I've learned my lesson about giving her too much in writing. ButI am in the process of trying to write everything that's bothering me right now, because it does hurt a lot and I need to put it somewhere. I'll decide later whether I can share it with her.
Thank you,
SV
> SV,
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> Copy over the last part of your post and email it to your therapist. It is so poignant and full of pain...of course you need to be taken care of! I tell my therapist all the time that even as I push him away and distance myself I don't really want him to go away or let me quit. We have developed a kind of ritual around this actually...and it always ends with him saying, "I'm not going anyway and I'm not letting you go either."
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> Please, try to force yourself to be honest, as much as you can. IT IS SO WORTH IT.
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> I feel for you...
> Daisy
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