Posted by pinkeye on January 18, 2005, at 15:38:14
In reply to Re: » pinkeye, posted by messadivoce on January 17, 2005, at 20:20:56
It is very hard I know. Just hang in there. It will get better. If possible distract yourself from worrying too much about your old T. Women have a tendency to dwell too much on issues and it prevents them from actually getting out of it soon. (Read in a book Learned Optimism given by my new T). That book suggests distracting ourselves from the emotional issues (of course after sometime of honest attempt to solve it - for unsolvable issues like this) is the best way to get out of them.
I am pretty much in the same thing like you are. Miss my old T, but at the same time going to a new one here and trying to connect with her and work on issues.
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