Posted by crushedout on January 17, 2005, at 14:00:52
In reply to Re: Unsatisfying session today, makes me question » crushedout, posted by gardenergirl on January 17, 2005, at 13:54:19
Thanks, gg. No, I don't think she's getting stuff right. She seems to be floundering. I can't tell her she's just missing stuff, even though I know I should, because it would make her feel bad. And then not only would I feel bad about hurting her, I'd also worry she didn't like me (it's a well-known psychological fact that people don't like other people who make them feel bad about themselves, right?).Anyway, on top of that, it's not like I can help her understand me. She's so far off that it would be like trying to make someone who speaks only Chinese understand English just by yelling it at them. OK, maybe I'm exaggerating. But it does feel kind of hopeless. And I'm in no place to start T-shopping again.
Sorry for ranting at you, gg. I'm just so frustrated.
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