Posted by gardenergirl on January 17, 2005, at 13:54:19
In reply to Unsatisfying session today, makes me question, posted by crushedout on January 17, 2005, at 13:26:16
Hi crushed,
Sorry you feel on a bit of a rollercoaster here, at least it sounds like you have ups and downs with your new T. One thought I had when reading your post is that you don't want her to feel bad if her interpretation falls flat. That's nice of you, but you don't have to and shouldn't protect your T's feelings. Let her know what doesn't feel like it fits. Talk some more about it. She can be wrong, and if she isn't getting you, then help her to do that.On the other hand, you bring up a good point about how your old T may have colluded with you in avoiding tougher stuff. Perhaps some of the interpretations your new T is making are accurate, but they are not timed well?
And feel free to correct me if I'm not getting it here. I'm in washing machine hell, and so I'm feeling "unbalanced". Oh wait, that's the machine. ;)
gg
poster:gardenergirl
thread:443177
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