Posted by fallsfall on December 20, 2004, at 8:33:13
In reply to I hate being depressed, posted by crushedout on December 19, 2004, at 23:50:38
(((((Crushed)))))
It is so hard, isn't it? I know that you are hurting (boy do I know...), and I wish I could make the hurt stop. But all I can do is tell you that you had really good reasons to stop seeing her, and that this agony won't be constant. It will be bad, and then it will get a little better, and then it will get bad again, and again, and again. But as Daisy mentioned, you haven't been happy for the last year. This is a different kind of unhappiness, but I really believe that this unhappiness will eventually go away - and that the earlier unhappiness would have gone on forever.
Liveworthliving had some good suggestions. And see my new thread below on the power of ice cream.
Do nice things for yourself, refuse to get stressed by the season - even to the point of deciding who wouldn't be unhappy if you didn't have their present before Xmas, and make a "later" list. Consider asking someone to give you a "bye" on a present for Xmas (their gift to you is that you don't have to give them a gift).
I'm playing a lot of computer games. Cubis is my new favorite, but it doesn't play well with Yahoo! messenger and I have to keep rebooting my computer. Finally I payed the money and downloaded it.
Send me an email if you would like. Or look for me on Messenger.
Love,
Falls.
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