Posted by Aphrodite on December 17, 2004, at 17:30:30
In reply to Sex and Dependency - long, posted by Daisym on December 17, 2004, at 11:42:05
(((Daisy))),
It sounds like the office invasion ripped open old and deep stuff. I'm so glad little Daisy was able to be unedited and share all she truly feels with him. However, I'm so sorry all this is pouring out now before the holidays. Maybe you need a suturing session? When I've gone spiraling down, I would go and spend a day talking about books I've read, music I like, etc. in order to bond with him but have a break. It was so helpful. Then we dove in again. It was like coming up for a respite of air while swimming.
Anyway, it is no wonder sex would come up in all of this. Afterall, folks like us with csa issues have always known it all of our lives as a negotiating tool. And when things look frightening as it did when we were children, we think back to what those in authority wanted from us and there it sits as a glaring, painful option.
I hope you can work through this without enduring much more retraumatization.
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