Posted by Dinah on December 17, 2004, at 15:47:55
In reply to Re: Sex and Dependency - long » vwoolf, posted by daisym on December 17, 2004, at 15:28:49
Perhaps it would help, in this instance, to think about the money? You are repaying him, but in a neutral coinage. Whenever I worry about being too much for my therapist, or not reciprocating in the relationship, it almost is reassuring to remember that his needs are being met financially.
I know that it's a gut deep reaction. But maybe you could quickly counter it with the things you are giving him. Cash is only one thing, I'm sure.
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