Posted by fluffycat on December 10, 2004, at 0:19:20
In reply to Re: transference questions, posted by fluffycat on December 9, 2004, at 23:54:24
> >If you tell your T let us know...and keep posting its cool to talk with you.
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> I'm still trying to decide what to do. I came across this great journal article online about transference that I'm halfway through (I'd post a link but am not sure if that's allowed here) and started wondering...if I do tell my T, is it possible they'll assign me to a different pdoc? I really don't want that to happen.
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> Also...(I read the thread on bad pdocs so have that in mind)...when I first started seeing him he seemed almost cold, there were definite boundaries there to the point that I was afraid to speak up about things that bothered me. Now that it's months later he seems to have 'warmed up' to me a bit, making a joke now and then and seeming much more relaxed. Maybe that's what brought my crush to light? I'd always notice (not entirely consciously) if he seemed anxious or calm in our appointments and wondered what that meant.
Sorry I keep posting but I thought about what I wrote above in relation to the article and realized I should talk to my T. Thanks for listening anyway. :)
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