Posted by Susan47 on November 18, 2004, at 19:34:10
In reply to Re: Saw, posted by sunny10 on November 18, 2004, at 9:16:13
I thought your advice was excellent, and if I could raise my 21 year-old again, I would do it all without trying to hide who I was .. because now I see him trying to hide who he really is, too, and being really hurt by that. Same way I was. I'm trying to have honest discussions with him about it now, but he does say he's worried about me (just because of who I am, apparently) and he's having an awful lot of trouble allowing himself to be who he is. He's afraid of finding out who he is. Well, maybe now though he has a chance, because of decisions he's made recently. Parenthood is the ultimate guilt trip.
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