Posted by JenStar on November 12, 2004, at 21:40:25
In reply to body memories **may trigger**, posted by underthecs on November 12, 2004, at 19:41:02
underthecs,
I'm sorry that things are so rough. It sounds like you are so sad. (I don't know who you are, by the way! I didn't see that your post could really reveal personal details.)What was going on in your life 2 years ago?
Did you make a significant med change / addition / subtraction at that time? (Many meds cause sex to lose pleasure.)
Was there a life change, like new job/death in the family / baby / etc?
Is it possible that you just fell out of love with your husband, or out of "lust" with him, and that is why you don't want sex with him?
Usually it's a big event that triggers such physical symptoms. Can you recall anything that might have happened?
I personally don't believe in repressed memories. But there are many others (laypeople & experts) who DO believe in them, very firmly. I think you should trust your gut and your instincts to figure out what is going on, whether that means seeing a special therapist, trying hypnosis, etc.
Can you work with a therapist to find ways to move forward and get your life back on track?
I hope things get better. I'm sending well wishes your way. :)
JenStar
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