Posted by crushedout on October 25, 2004, at 13:12:56
In reply to Re: my stuff » crushedout, posted by Rigby on October 24, 2004, at 23:42:13
> It sounds like *she* can't handle it. Do you buy her explanation that you are dissociating? What specifically does she mean by that?
she means i clam up, and go numb, and can't really talk about what's going with her anymore. that has happened a few times when we've tried talking about the transference, but we haven't really tried in so long and so it hasn't happened in a long time, either.
i'm not sure why she wouldn't be able to handle my feelings about her. she used to be flattered by them. so it seems odd to me that she would avoid it. also, she says we need to find a way to talk about them without me dissociating so she claims not to be avoiding them altogether. like i've said, i'm not sure how much i trust her, so yes, i am suspicious that she's the one who's avoiding the topic, but why would she?
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