Posted by DaisyM on August 26, 2004, at 21:22:17
In reply to Aargh I'm in pain again, posted by crushedout on August 26, 2004, at 21:00:52
Oh, crushed, only love and support from me. You've agonized over this for so long. I was hoping it would stay better. Is it possible that things with the boyfriend are getting more serious and that might be scaring you into running for cover...back to a relationship that CAN'T work but gets you twisted up? Just a huge guess...
I'm glad she handled what you had to say in a professional way. My therapist always tells me that therapy is a spiral. You have to keep going over and over stuff and eventually you get to the core. There is something here that remains unresolved for you. Letting go is still too hard. You'll figure it out. You've been really working at it. Just let her help you keep your feel on the ground.
Do you have a vacation break coming up from her? Maybe this would be a good testing time, to see how you feel about being away from her?
Whatever happens, I'm glad you can still post about it. I miss you when you disappear.
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