Posted by Dinah on April 25, 2004, at 9:37:53
In reply to Growing up in isolation really messed me up, posted by 1980Monroe on April 25, 2004, at 1:08:12
Hi Monroe.
I have often thought my early childhood spent on the farm with no other kids and very busy adults shaped my social destiny. If I'm really honest, my playmates after that were ones who were willing to fit themselves into my elaborate imaginary world.
But I also know it's more complicated than that. An intricate blend of biological traits and many many environmental influences. Even now as I'm attempting to make little changes, changes that shouldn't be a big deal, I'm finding layer upon layer of meaning to them.
Hypnotherapy might help. Long term interpersonal therapy might help more.
But I keep remembering that I was a social creature who, while not the most popular girl in class, was also not unpopular in tenth and twelth grades. As much as I kid about aliens taking over my body, there must be some part of me that can interact with others when given a decent boost of confidence. Perhaps the same is true of you?
What are you really good at? Maybe you can make your social excursions based on your strengths, at least at the beginning.
poster:Dinah
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