Posted by fallsfall on April 24, 2004, at 21:52:15
In reply to Re: Would it be ok for my T to hold me? » terrics, posted by crushedout on April 24, 2004, at 20:50:49
>Yeah, I know I would want more, but I also think it might be healing. And maybe I wouldn't? Anyway, I'm gonna ask her.
Crushed,
You say "I *KNOW* I would want more"
You say "I *THINK* it *MIGHT* be healing"
You say "*MAYBE* I wouldn't"
So the negative thing is a sure thing, and the positive things are only possibilities.
Somehow that doesn't add up (in my Mathematician's brain) to a good risk.
I would encourage you to talk to her about *why* you want her to hold you. But that is different from asking her *to* hold you.
Please be careful.
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