Posted by Racer on April 9, 2004, at 19:39:16
In reply to Re: Sorry, I don't understand how this applies? » Racer, posted by 64Bowtie on April 9, 2004, at 19:15:02
The body image is one thing -- I feel fat, but people are starting to tell me that I'm quite thin - but there's also the whole split between me thinking I'm not worthwhile, and others saying I'm too hard on myself. That feeds into my whole self-defeating cycle, where I do set myself up for failure, and then get to beat up on myself when I do fail.
So, you might be right about not worrying about it, but this has so much to do with my misery that I'd rather work on it and try to get past it. Does that make sense to you?
Thank you for your input, I do appreciate that you took the time to post.
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