Posted by 64Bowtie on March 26, 2004, at 15:46:06
In reply to (((Daisy))), posted by 64Bowtie on March 26, 2004, at 2:09:17
Daisy, What room is there for conflict at the discovery of facts level? Size? Weight? Age? Brightness? (All these are comparisons - qualitative! Back to pesky topic called "isness")
Cut-to-the-chase-here:
***If most every conflict we have in our lifetime is over the story and not the facts, isn't it to our advantage to make every attempt to perceive better if we want to improve our lives by better conflict resolution?
***Doesn't perceiving better have a time-value element that requires that we waste less time doing the wrong things in order to have time to do the right things for that better life?
***Doesn't it require that we stop pledging allegience to folks who are causing the problem by demanding we follow thier testimony as to what makes the world go round?
***As gownups, don't we have all the talents required to live that better life and owe it to ourselves to honor those attributes and live that better life?None of these are trick questions.....
Rod
poster:64Bowtie
thread:328600
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