Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 8:54:34
In reply to Crying in your T's office, posted by mair on March 22, 2004, at 17:35:16
I probably cry about once a month in my T's office. He just sits quietly until I'm ready to say something (which is usually pretty quick because I hate too much silence and I resist a total meltdown).
A few months ago, I told him I was feeling guilty, though, because I started crying in front of my husband and I thought to myself, "I wish he was my T instead because my T always just lets me cry." My husband doesn't want to see me upset and looks for ways to help me stop crying. On the good side, though, at least my husband hugs me when I cry. I can really let loose if I have a literal shoulder to cry on. Can't have that with my T :(.
Unfortunately, I think I cry altogether too much.
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