Posted by tinydancer on March 2, 2004, at 12:14:43
In reply to Re: To those who have crossed the line » tinydancer, posted by Fallen4myT on March 1, 2004, at 10:43:33
Yup, yup...
100% behind you here. I get rather irritated with all this finger pointing about transference. It is possible to have feelings, normal emotional reactions without symptomizing and categorizing it. I love the lottery ticket metaphor. That is absolutely how I see it too. I'm not saying I believe that I'm holding a winning ticket but I do believe that it is possible...That one could make it work....But that it is taking a huge risk and one that could end up being extremely devestating at that. Absolutely.
My standing offer with my T is begging for just one night. (I am DEFINITLEY NOT too proud to beg it would seem...)I can get totally carried away by every last detail of how awesome it could be. And I truly believe that it probably would be pretty damn awesome. If he didn't have the life he has, with a wife and children, I totally believe that there could have been a chance there.
Wah wah...do you hear the whining in my voice...I feel so pathetic.
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