Posted by Fallen4myT on March 2, 2004, at 21:27:14
In reply to Re: To those who have crossed the line » Fallen4myT, posted by tinydancer on March 2, 2004, at 12:14:43
Oh thank you for understanding what I am saying I feel the same obviously. I think we all have a right to our opinions and feelings and not everything is black and white and transferance..even my T has told me the seat you take does not always make it transferance...so thank you for GETTING my message..sometimnes on these boards I feel like a leper
hugs
> Yup, yup...
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> 100% behind you here. I get rather irritated with all this finger pointing about transference. It is possible to have feelings, normal emotional reactions without symptomizing and categorizing it. I love the lottery ticket metaphor. That is absolutely how I see it too. I'm not saying I believe that I'm holding a winning ticket but I do believe that it is possible...That one could make it work....But that it is taking a huge risk and one that could end up being extremely devestating at that. Absolutely.
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> My standing offer with my T is begging for just one night. (I am DEFINITLEY NOT too proud to beg it would seem...)I can get totally carried away by every last detail of how awesome it could be. And I truly believe that it probably would be pretty damn awesome. If he didn't have the life he has, with a wife and children, I totally believe that there could have been a chance there.
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> Wah wah...do you hear the whining in my voice...I feel so pathetic.
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