Posted by Karen_kay on February 19, 2004, at 9:12:15
In reply to Seriously considering firing my T tomorrow, posted by crushedout on February 18, 2004, at 19:40:56
((crushed)))
I'm sorry this is turning so ugly for you. I can't tell you what to do, but if she's helped you to see improvements in your life, maybe you should try to stick it out..
Let her know that you don't like feeling like you're manipulative (did I make that up??? projection perhaps?), or what ever it is that she seems to think you are...
I can tell you how my therapist would react if I were to tell him that I was going to switch.
He'd say, "Well, if that's what you think you need to do, then do it. But, we've made progress together.."
Are you thinking about this because you want her to beg you to stay (I've tried that before and my therapist doesn't do it. :(
Or is this overwhelming? If so, tell her..
I'd say, make a list of your motivations and other possibilities before you actually do decide to change. It's helped me a lot to see on paper why I am doing the things I am..
Good luck at your session hun. I'm sending positive and comforting vibes your way...
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