Posted by CarrotCake on February 9, 2004, at 8:43:03
In reply to Re: Is there an end to Transference and Feelings for T » fallsfall, posted by Karen_kay on February 9, 2004, at 8:07:20
Thanks for your comments and support.
I first became aware of my Transference when I once saw my T whilst out with friends. I had seen her out before but on this occasion I really felt something. It also struck me that I knew very little about her. We have spoke about this and agreed a way of dealing with the occasions whereby we see each other outside of our sessions.
However this has not helped.
I do not want to loose the feelings I have and withdraw as I believe that would be counter-productive to our sessions. Therefore I would like to know how my T feels about the relationship and agree a healthy framework to focus on. The problem is that my T has never been very open with her feelings and don't know how she feels about me or our sessions. Failing this the only alternative is for me to stop our sessions as each week this situation continues is proving to be harder and harder.
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