Posted by antigua on February 7, 2004, at 12:54:25
In reply to Re: Is there an end to Transference and Feelings for T, posted by lilmsbubbles07 on February 7, 2004, at 12:23:04
Yes, I think there is an end to this. I am very fond of my T, she has been wonderful to me over the years.
But I think I'm past the transference now. She is more like a role model to me now, and I can see her as a real live person with faults and all. She can annoy me with her habits and I accept that she is a just another person.
My T was my good mother when I needed her and she has taught me how to be one for my own kids (I'm still working on it). I know there will be an end to therapy one day and I'm ready for it. That said, as long as she is still alive I'm sure I can be in contact with her if I need her.
So hang in there. I've been through that pain and have come out the other side and I don't miss it!
antigua
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