Posted by alexandra_k on January 30, 2004, at 2:44:14
In reply to Re: Bean pissed me off today! Please help! » Miss Honeychurch, posted by Dinah on January 30, 2004, at 1:05:17
Hey. I would give letters to one of my T's in session and he would read and give them back - he said that if he didn't give it back he would have to put it on my file.
I gave him a paper I wrote in our last session (he was leaving the country) and he said 'I won't take it with me you know' and somehow or other I managed to snigger a little like he had a dirty mind and managed to say that he was most welcome to shred it. He sent me an email from Canada and said that he had 'just read it again, and he thought...'.
:) Bit sneaky of me though...
Seriously, though you could ask whether he would prefer you not to give him stuff. Some don't like it. You could also ask him to read stuff in sessions and not give it to him - I'd be embarrased to read it outloud - but they can read and give it back. I hate that sort of stuff going on my file. You could ask him to take it out.
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