Posted by DaisyM on January 26, 2004, at 15:19:04
In reply to Re: Lookdownfish- maritial angst update, posted by gardenergirl on January 26, 2004, at 14:39:08
My husband told me this weekend that he really wants to "be there for me" but he just can't see that anything is wrong. After all I'm not the one who is sick...and he doesn't "need this right now."
He also told me a friend of his warned him that "wives change when they are in therapy" so he should watch out for this.
It was a frustrating, intense conversation in which I ended up reassuring him, making it "all better" like always. PLEASE keep sharing how you are helping your husbands cope because I feel myself withdrawing from mine -- I'm not sharing what he can't handle.
poster:DaisyM
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