Posted by Karen_kay on January 11, 2004, at 14:46:54
In reply to Start Small » Karen_kay, posted by Elle2021 on January 10, 2004, at 1:04:00
I'm sorry it has taken a while to get back to you. I attempted one yesterday and lost it. What's the deal, pickle? I just gave up after that...
Happy Birthday to you!
I'd send you a card, but I don't want to scare you by letting you know that I know where you live so early in the relationship. I'll wait until you are ready to know that I know where you live. Follow that? I'm not sure if I did either. Actually, upon reading that, it sounds rather frightening, doesn't it? Happy Birthday anyway :) Make it a great one!Maybe it would help you mum if you offered to go with her to see the doctor? It helps to have support and with you there it might help ease her distress of leaving the house as well...
Also, I'm sure that the reason she is so controlling is because she feels that she has almost no control. I mean, she has issues (as in fears, ect.) about leaving her house and all.If I were you, I'd ask for a referal to that therapist. If you don't really think your Pdoc is giving you all the help you need, what's the harm?
I often think that the wheels in my therapist's head are turning and he's think, "God help me if my daughter turns out like this!" Actually, I'm thinking the same thing. I hope his daughter doesn't turn out like me. I hope she's perfect and lovely (not that I don't think I'm lovely or anything) I just want his life to be perfect to make up for all the bad things and actions I throw at him during the session. He told me once that he and his wife got into a fight (I'm certain it was her fault :) and he left and slammed the door and on his way out he heard his daughter say, "Why is daddy so upset?" He came back inside and sat down with his daughter and talked to her and apologized for showing his temper in front of her. (Isn't that sweet?)I wish he was my daddy! See, you aren't alone!
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