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Re: T is relieved -- should I be, too?

Posted by naiad on January 5, 2004, at 13:54:35

In reply to T is relieved -- should I be, too?, posted by crushedout on January 5, 2004, at 4:08:37

I think she's relieved because you told her "I know we can't be lovers..." She hears you making a statement that sounds pretty final and that relieves her from having to convince you that a romance is not a good idea.
BTW -- several posts ago I said that it was impossible for you & your T to be lovers. You questioned my use of the word impossible. What I meant was that it is impossible that becoming lovers will have a good outcome. Of course, I don't know this to be true, but from what I have read here and in the book "In Session" it seems highly unlikely. Anyway, that is water over the dam since it sounds like you are thinking clearly about the situation now. Good for you. You really have processed some difficult stuff.

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