Posted by Rigby on January 12, 2004, at 11:49:22
In reply to Re: Difficult Questions » Rigby, posted by crushedout on January 12, 2004, at 11:06:58
For sure. I can get feeling pretty darn exposed and yucky. I think though you'll more quickly move on because of it vs. pushing it all underground. I confessed an attraction to a (straight) woman (not a therapist) and she was so "proud" of it that she broadcast it all over our circle of friends. At first I was devastated--embarassed beyond belief--then after I while I didn't give a crap--so you can get over this stuff-truly!
> yeah, i just don't like the mixed messages, being jerked around. but you're right, i needed these boundaries clarified. i feel pretty goodYeah--I think what I was gonna say was that going three times/week probably only served to fuel your crush and also your isolation. But that's kinda my opinion--seems like w/ that much therapy there's no time to "use it" in real life. For crisis though it is probably very necessary.
> > Also, three times a week perhaps only served to
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> did you get cut off here?
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