Posted by Dinah on January 1, 2004, at 15:06:54
In reply to Re: It worked out fine, dratted man » Dinah, posted by DaisyM on December 25, 2003, at 23:02:28
I think it would be dull as dishwater if it always went that smoothly. :) But the occasional bonding session is nice, especially before an absence.
The funny thing was that it turns out he can see me twice this week! He actually seems to have a fuller than usual schedule this week (I guess because it's only three days), considering he didn't know whether he would work or not.
He's infuriating sometimes with his lack of predictability and disorganization. I wish I could say I choose to find it charming, but I can't. It's too reminiscent of my life growing up. You never knew what was going to happen. There was no predictability at all. I guess I can hope that it's helping me learn to live with unpredictability better, but it doesn't *seem* to be working.
I suppose that explains my extreme reaction to his indecisiveness. It just is too reminiscent of unhappy childhood experiences. Transference.
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