Posted by Still Hurting on December 26, 2003, at 22:15:52
In reply to Re: Can/Will I ever get over Her? YES, posted by naiad on December 26, 2003, at 11:12:36
I think I've finally got a breakthrough on this mess. Today I realized that when we go therapy we place our souls into the hands of our therapist in order that they can change and rectify our broken lives. We transform from a heart of stone to a heart of clay in their hands as we tell them our treasured secrets. Now what's supposed to happen is we lean on them for season in order to gather strength, but in due time, the power we gave them, soon comes back to ourselves, as we learn to take control and power over our lives constructively. Transference seems not only inevitable but necessary. Transference seems to assist the therapist in helping to make necessary behavourable changes in our life. But if that is so true, why do they run so? But see, we aren't supposed to stay stuck on transference. In time, we are supposed to gain back our soul, emotions, and strength that we placed into their hands. Therapy is not forever. It is just for a time in order to gain the strength that you lost due to a broken and stressful season in your life.
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