Posted by fallsfall on December 25, 2003, at 11:19:45
In reply to Can/Will I ever get over Her?, posted by Still Hurting on December 24, 2003, at 22:45:57
Still Hurting.
I understand your hurt. It runs so deep.
Please don't contact her - in particular, don't contact her outside of her professional setting. This means don't go to her house. Don't call her home phone. Don't wait in the parking lot next to her car. I know the urge is very hard to deny.
I don't remember your particulars, but do you have a new therapist? If you don't, please get a new therapist as soon as you can.
I haven't seen my old therapist in 6 months, but the pain is still very real. My new therapist has made this time bearable and now we are working on understanding why I am in such pain over the old one. We took a break and worked on other things for a while - that was really important.
Please find a new therapist and let them help you work this through. It is too hard to do by yourself.
Best of luck
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