Posted by Dinah on December 23, 2003, at 20:59:40
In reply to Re: I'm still here. (long), posted by Karen_kay on December 23, 2003, at 20:48:32
He's probably buying your act of nonchalance. You need to be more open with him, because if he's anything like mine he's really dense and needs it spelled out. Or wrestled to the ground in a headlock. :)
I know it's hard, but you pay them so that you can be a bit needy with them. (OK, sometimes I'm a great pit of need, but still the idea remains the same). Things that probably wouldn't be wise with friends or maybe even family are ok with them. I even describe my therapist as the barrier between my "craziness" and my family. I am needy and whatever with him, so that I am a relatively good mom and an at least almost ok wife.
(And about the pacifiers, do the baby ones work? I tried that myself a few years back, and didn't have any luck *at all*. They seemed way too small.)
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