Posted by naiad on December 21, 2003, at 9:39:47
In reply to Re: Your next appt. » naiad, posted by Dinah on December 21, 2003, at 9:11:03
Dinah,
"But my own non-analytic therapist doesn't really give compliments. I'm relatively certain an analytic one would explore your wishes rather than gratify them. Is that your experience with him?"
Absolutely! You are exactly right and I am so glad you pointed that out because I would go in wanting something that is not going to happen. Then I would feel cheated or that he has nothing good to say and is purposely ignoring my request. This is important for me to understand --THANKS.
By the way, I think you are amazing, possibly perfect :)-- just kidding, that is a horrible expectation to put on anyone. But your insight is truly helpful and very relevant for me.
Take care.
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