Posted by tabitha on December 18, 2003, at 20:01:44
In reply to Re: Ready to Throw in the Towel » tabitha, posted by fallsfall on December 18, 2003, at 7:39:48
> (I'm a bit stressed, so please try to read this as a tactful and supportive response, even if it doesn't quite come across that way...)
Falls, it's a lovely response. I'm glad you're brave enough to even post to me at all after I spouted off to you for no good reason.
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> Group can be hard. I know what you mean about spending all your time changing when you just want to be you. I think that they are not looking for you to be different inside - they are just looking for you to be more transparent, so that they can see who the you IS inside. It is a difference in *behavior* rather than a difference in your essence?That's a nice way to view it. It made me feel a lot better to read this.
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> Have you told the one who doesn't like you how you see HER behavior? Does anyone in the group agree with you? (I know, doesn't sound like a fun topic at all - but it might be helpful)I'll post an update.. apparently I'm doing quite a bit of filtering.. or else my therapist is nuts.. or the two of them are secret lovers or something
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