Posted by Poet on December 3, 2003, at 10:23:08
In reply to Re: Mind's Eye --- mine must need washing... » Poet, posted by Dr. Rod on December 2, 2003, at 19:17:05
Dr. Rod,
Joslyn spoke for me without knowing it. I am bothered by the word *you.*
<<You “vibrate with indecision” until you have no time left and make a sometimes regrettable decision, or panic and don’t decide at all…
I felt put down about what you were saying about choices because I blame myself for every bad decision and the resulting consequences. I think if you had said "I used to...my experience taught me..." I would have looked at your theory differently.
<<Harnessing my impulses and working diligently on appropriate "conflict resolution", has freed me forever... I can now make "bad decisions" and not suffocate in the aftermath.
That was worded perfectly, you gave me personal examples without making me feel accused of doing something wrong.
What you say is interesting, it's how you say it that needs some laundering.
Poet
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