Posted by noa on November 30, 2003, at 12:34:01
In reply to Re: New Question from a Therapist » DaisyM, posted by fallsfall on November 30, 2003, at 10:46:05
Maybe the goal is to bring both sides into a more moderate middle ground with less rigid boundaries between the two---able to flow between dependency and independence smoothly as needed?
I have similar issues, only I've been in therapy so long that I manage the dependency stuff better now. But still working on it all both in therapy and in real life. I tend to stay away from the deep down dependency feelings now, although when they come up, I am better at putting them away when the session is over vs. how hard it once was for me.
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