Posted by fallsfall on October 29, 2003, at 10:16:10
In reply to Better after session, posted by DaisyM on October 28, 2003, at 22:46:30
That sounds like a good productive session.
With my old therapist, I could feel her "holding" me when I wasn't with her. I could think of her and feel contained (like she was in control of me so I wouldn't ooze all over the place and lose my wholeness).
I don't get that with my new one - he's not as "supportive" (which probably helps me not fall as far into dependency).
Do you believe intellectually that he will be there for you? Sometimes they just have to keep proving it for us - we learned too well from others that they will desert us.
Keep the faith. Those kinds of talks are pure gold.
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