Posted by fallsfall on October 8, 2003, at 7:27:52
In reply to Psychiatrist as father figure, posted by Jellibabe on October 8, 2003, at 4:57:54
I have 3 kids (15 - 20). I need a mother. When I take care of my kids, it is supposed to help. My 15 year old was sick last weekend and I got to hold her and stroke her hair. At least I know that she will remember the comfort - but it didn't replace the comfort I am looking for.
Our status as parents doesn't mean that we don't still have needs ourselves (though my 15 year old will tell you that her needs are the only ones that matter...)
Medusa is right - pick up what ever pieces of fathering you can find. Maybe they will add up to fill your emptiness.
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