Posted by LA on January 29, 2003, at 21:14:52
In reply to Re: Marriage Counselors to Iso » coral, posted by judy1 on January 26, 2003, at 11:37:50
> My WH and I went through a horribly rough time, due to the depression (and my recovery, of all things).... even
> separated. However, given what we have now, I'd go through the grief in our relationship again.
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> I think when things are really rough you and your SO are so busy trying to get through that, so when it eventually quiets down (like your depression lifting) you begin to focus on all the other issues. I'm glad you had a successful experience- one of the things the counselor said was we may come out stronger for this. I'll try to hang on to that. take care, judy
>Hi,
I am new to this area. I am on meds for depression and having a hard time trying to get my husband to understand just what depression is and how it effects me. He has that you can snap out of it mentality and seems to take it ( that I am depressed ) as a personal attack on him. He will not go for counseling though he says he loves me. And advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
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