Posted by beardedLADY on January 6, 2003, at 9:32:37
In reply to Done with therapy, posted by Miller on January 6, 2003, at 9:11:44
Miller:
This is, of course, your decision to make, and yours alone. You didn't explain your post (is "concentradt" supposed to be "concentrated"? I haven't heard of either term in therapy, which is why I'm asking), so I don't know why you would think you were just a car payment.
I don't want to be hard on you. Lord knows you're hard enough on yourself. But I do want to say/remind you that it may be impossible for therapy to work when you are not honest with your therapist.
I'm not saying that you are dishonest, but you are not forthright, and I don't see how he can help you completely if you don't disclose the events that have made you who you are, that have led you to the place you are today.
I don't want what I say to be misconstrued as unsupportive. I am supportive of you, but I think your decision to quit therapy may not be a good one.
Might you consider a different therapist at least? Or could it be that you are taking something your therapist said the wrong way, which led you to believe he's not on your side?
You are not alone. We are all here. Maybe someone else will speak out on this thread and say how right you are, that therapy is a waste. But I can't say it. Sorry.
Good luck to you.
Beardy
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