Posted by alexandra_k on October 22, 2013, at 16:53:58
In reply to Re: support » alexandra_k, posted by SLS on October 22, 2013, at 14:45:11
and if you can't... well...
when i can't i see it as a deficit in me.
i...
there were times when i couldn't handle deneb's suicidal posts... but... i didn't think she should be blocked for them. because... there usually was someone who WAS in the position to say something helpful to her. sometimes the most help i could offer was to simply stay out of it (refrain from posting something positively unhelpful) and let other people relate to her.
i think...
maybe lou gets something from dialoguing with bob here. and other people sometimes too, of course.
i would feel sad if that was taken from him.
of course i am also sad that other people feel upset in response to his posts... but i think that it would harm them less to refrain from reading his posts than it would harm him if he were not allowed to post here.
like how i feel it would harm my flatmates less to listen to music at a lower volume / with their doors shut / with headphones than it would harm me to read in a noisy environment.
i guess sometimes... one does have to try and weigh harms...
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