Posted by Lou PIlder on May 2, 2013, at 21:43:10
In reply to Lou's warning- pstykihtt, posted by Lou PIlder on May 2, 2013, at 20:47:08
> > Dr. Bob, I definitely appreciate and support your new approach of accepting and separating differing views. It also seems reasonable and fair to give posters a warning when they make comments which could be hurtful, such as the ones directed at Lou which you cite.
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> > However, Lou has made even more frequent comments which many in the community find personally harmful and even threatening, and yet, to my knowledge, you have never given him a civility warning. No-one can understand why you are applying your very reasonable contemporary civility rules so completely differently to different posters. We all hope and expect that you will apply the rules equally and fairly, and are shocked and disillusioned when you don't. It is also undoubtedly not healthy for Lou to be repeatedly given the message here that the minimal civility rules apparently do not apply to him.
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> Friends,
> It is written here,[...Lou has made..comments which many in the community find personally harmful and even threatening...].
> Psychologists write that statements of that nature can induce disparaging, hostile or disagreeable opinions or feelings toward me. But it is much more than that, for the statements have what is known as {foreseeable harm} because the statement can humiliate, degrade and dehumanize me, which is what hatetred posted toward another can do. And what would it profit for anyone to entertain in their mind what the poster has written about me here? Psychologists say that when one adopts the hate that another writes or says about another, that they can turn that hate to others in threats and insults that could poison the person so that they could commit even mass-murder. And this is allowed here under the guise that I have "never been given a civility warning" which is a lie. And lies about me here if adopted by you could infuse hatred toward me, but that hatred could be transferred to others. And how could one in that state ever overcome addiction and/or depression? My friends, I say to you that when you see this type of hate posted here about me, or anyone else, tell them to (redacted by respondent) where the sun don't shine.
> LouFriends,
The statement about me here is allowed to be posted in other types by the other posters in this thread. Notice that in reading the statement, there are presumptions about me. And when presumptions written about another can induce others as seeing me , as in this case here, as someone that is harming others or as an enemy, that is a very special type of hate. And for it to be allowed here by Mr Hsiung and his deputy could lead you to think that it is supportive, for support takes precedence according to Mr Hsiung. And one could think that it will be good for this community as a whole for this type of hate to stand here, for Mr Hsiung states that one match could cause a forest fire so that he does not wait.
Look at the other posts in this thread. Now we have a group. My friends, psychologists write about group hate and how the members of the group get a (false) sense of superiority which can give them a distorted mind-set to think that they can ridicule or bully others or even commit mass-murder. Look at the common thread that is woven in this thread about me. Is that not what can open the door to persuasion and indoctrination? Is that what you want to be involved in and swept into the sewer of hate? I say to you that if you want to be healed, the darkness of hate can keep you from finding the path to healing
Lou
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